Sometimes in your life you will experience uncontrollable change and obstacles that come face to face with you. You cannot run from it or hide from it, but must find a way to overcome the situation, learn from it and adapt. Maybe you lost a job, a relationship, or experienced a situation that made you feel like you were totally out of control of your own life.
While this is will at least happen to everyone at least once or more in their life, everyone handles it differently. The feeling of losing control or being out of control. The thing about control and your own power that you have in your life is that it is yours alone, nobody else's. Each individual has their own path in life in which they are exploring everyday. Each individual has their own divine power and internal guidance that leads them on their own path in life and discovering who they are. When you experience loss or lose control of something in your life, it is easy to place blame. If you lose a job, a relationship, a pet, etc, It can be easy to place blame onto someone else, an organization, God, etc, but blame is one of the most poisonous things that you can hold on to. The inability to forgive or let go puts you in a constant state of dwelling, un forgiveness and restlessness.
When you start to let go of blame, you will learn to regain your power back.
It is so critical to trust yourself. When you trust yourself you know that you have confidence, self esteem, dignity and self worth. You know that the choices you make are good choices and that you have the control in your life. You have to have the courage to walk alone and being alone first. You have to feel confident in your own skin and own who are you are. Doing this will give you confidence and power within yourself to know who you are, who you are not and seeing yourself as so many other things besides powerful. You will start to see yourself as strong, courageous and brave; who you were meant to be. Realizing that your life is yours alone will give you the strength to overcome obstacles and situations that seem out of your control.